Wedding Trivia Thursday | North Carolina Wedding Planner

The term “best man” dates back to the times when Scotsmen kidnapped their future brides. The friend of the groom who had excelled at the abduction was acclaimed to be the best man.

 

 

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Don't Forget Your Groom | North Carolina Wedding Planner

Don't forget...it's his day too. Although he probably hasn't been waiting for this day since he was five, and didn't spend time planning weddings for his GI Joe's & Xena Warrior Princess, he is just as important as you on this special day. Everyone will be looking at you on this day, but you will be looking at him and you have the opportunity to add special touches to make him feel important.

 

Here are some of our favorite ways to include the groom and feel free to check us out on Pinterest for more great ideas like this.

Groom's Cake:

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Not interested in having two cakes? Maybe consider adding a little something special for him in your wedding cake.

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I've seen these adorable hangers for the bride and even the bridesmaids but I love this one for the groom from Burlap Babe.

 

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Cufflinks make a great wedding day gift for your groom. Most men don't already own them and he'll have them later on for special occasions. Check out some of these awesome cufflinks.

 

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How to Get Your Groom Involved | North Carolina Wedding Planner

Alright brides don’t get offended, I know it’s your big day, but we have to admit that it’s the groom’s day too. Most grooms just want to know when and where to show up, but if you want to get your groom involved, I’ve got some great suggestions!

1. Picking out wedding bands. Whether you’re choosing matching bands or creating something from scratch the groom’s opinion is important here, especially since he’ll be wearing one of them.

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2. Thinking about a “co-ed” bridal shower? If it’s warm enough outside, have a girly shower inside and invite the guys outside for a cookout, drinks, and maybe even a game of poker or cornhole. They’ll be wishing they could attend every bridal shower if they were all thrown this way.

3. The marriage license. You can get this without Groomy!  Make sure you find out all of the requirements before you head to the courthouse to apply. In NC, a marriage license is only valid for 60 days so be sure you don’t apply for it too early.

4. Picking his attendants. From the best man to the groomsmen and even the ushers. It is considered courtesy to include a soon-to-be brother-in-law or brothers-in-law. When it comes to ushers, the rule is 1 usher per 50 guests.

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5. Picking out groomsmen gifts. This a great way for him to thank the guys closest to him for taking time to participate in the big day. Cuff links & watches are a great idea or maybe even taking them all to a sporting event beforehand.

6. Are you planning to write your own wedding vows? This is the perfect way for him to share how he feels about you and what marriage means to him.

7. Bachelor Party. Are you uncomfortable with the bars & strip clubs? Discuss the “rules” of the bachelor/bachelorette parties beforehand and stick to them.

8. Attire. Give him the say-so when it comes to his tux and the attire for his attendants. Feel free to give your opinion and make sure that it doesn’t contrast the theme of the wedding, but remember that you wouldn’t want him to pick your dress.

9. The Groom’s Cake. There are two ways to involve your groom here. Either let him choose the cake or you can order the cake to reflect his interests as a surprise for him.

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10. The toast. Having your groom give a thank you toast at the wedding reception.

 

 

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